The Book on Jana''iz (Funerals)
10/22. Chapter:
What Has Been Related About the Prohibition Of Slapping The Cheeks And Tearing The Clothes During A Calamity
Jami at-Tirmidhi
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي زُبَيْدٌ الأَيَامِيُّ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ شَقَّ الْجُيُوبَ وَضَرَبَ الْخُدُودَ وَدَعَا بِدَعْوَةِ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ " . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ .
Abdullah narrated that: The Prophet Said: "He Who Slaps (His) Cheeks, Tears (His) Clothes And Calls With The Call Of The Jahliyyah Is Not One Of Us."
Reference : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 999In-book reference : Book 10, Hadith 35English translation : Vol. 2, Book 5, Hadith 999