The Book of Zakah
23/88. Chapter:
Demanding When Asking
Sunan an-Nasai
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ، قَالَ أَنْبَأَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ وَهْبِ بْنِ مُنَبِّهٍ، عَنْ أَخِيهِ، عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " لاَ تُلْحِفُوا فِي الْمَسْأَلَةِ وَلاَ يَسْأَلْنِي أَحَدٌ مِنْكُمْ شَيْئًا وَأَنَا لَهُ كَارِهٌ فَيُبَارَكُ لَهُ فِيمَا أَعْطَيْتُهُ " .
It was narrated from Mu'awiyah that the Messenger of Allah said: "Do not be demanding when asking. If one of you asks me for anything and I give it reluctantly, there will be no blessing in it."
Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 2593In-book reference : Book 23, Hadith 159English translation : Vol. 3, Book 23, Hadith 2594